India: From Enchantment to Appreciation

When I was a little girl, my family had a large house but not always a lot of money. To make ends meet, we rented rooms to long-term paying guests, mostly from abroad. There was Leah, the medical student from Frankfurt. She taught me German from her lap. Next came Misako, the movie set designer who cut her time between California, various set locations, and her native Japan. Eva from Chihuahua Mexico, the loving elder sister figure who taught me to dance salsa to Selena. Most significantly, there was Suresh. Hailing from Amritsar, he became a member of my family and lived with us until falling ill. With deep affection for his mother country, Suresh filled our days with tales of life in Punjab; our evenings with poetry and metaphors that I like to imagine were of Gandhi-ji. Many nights I spun to bed already awash in a dream of ancient markets and allegories, of a country steeped in history and colors and cows. So began my enchantment with India.

Fast forward 20 plus years. For as long as I can remember, I have had two callings. The first is service. There is a drawer in my childhood home of letters my parents never sent: Dear Florida: let’s save the Everglades. Dear Santa: can’t we do something about homelessness? As an adult, I went on to serve as a regional community development planner in the U.S., asking similar things of people I barely knew. My second calling is travel. Living in a multi-cultural household forged in me an enduring interest in language, culture, and what life is like elsewhere in the world. At age 33, I realized this calling was not going away, and that it was time to transition from domestic to international community development. The AIF Clinton Fellowship represented an opportunity to make this pivot, and to do so in a country that has interested me since childhood. I am now posted as an AIF Fellow at the Indian Institute of Corporate Affairs (IICA) in the National Foundation for Corporate Social Responsibility. My current focus of my Fellowship project is an impact assessment of micro-finance on tribal self-help groups (SHGs) in southern India. Professionally, it is a dream project. Personally, my enchantment has given way to appreciation: of this country and the lessons I am learning here.

Hiking during Orientation
Hiking to our homestays in Uttarakhand during the Fellowship Orientation, September 2019.

When I first arrived in India, I frequently collapsed to bed, dizzied by a sensory and cultural overload that surpassed even what I dreamed up as a child. After two months here, my perception is more nuanced and my connection to the country has grown stronger. What I am finding is that this is a culture that has a unique take on friendship, family, and community. It is a place that will embrace you (even when you make mistakes) and teach you to hug back. I came to India expecting the sites to take my breath away. More so, it’s the generosity and depth of relationships that leaves me breathless. I think this is the reason visitors get hooked on India. It’s why they return again and again, or stay. The feeling is exemplified by an experience I had shortly after arriving here.  During the Fellowship Orientation in September, I was posted in a rural homestay with another Fellow. The hike in and out was a challenge for me. Until I felt the weight of my backpack ease, my Co-Fellow lifting it from behind. She continued to do so until we made it to our destination. Since moving to India, someone has lifted my backpack every day. Through my experience as an AIF Clinton Fellow, I am learning to do the same.

Dominique is serving as an American India Foundation (AIF) Clinton Fellow with the Indian Institute of Corporate Affairs in Gurugram, Haryana. For her Fellowship project, she is studying the national indicators for aspirational districts, identifying possible investment areas for corporate social responsibility, and creating a framework for corporate engagement. Dominique graduated with a Bachelor’s in political science in 2013 and a Master’s in community development and planning in 2015. With focuses in comparative politics and economic development, she went on to serve six years as a regional community development planner. As a principal planner with the Central Massachusetts Regional Planning Commission, she built and managed a program to shepherd communities through state initiatives, coordinated comprehensive planning efforts, and led a variety of community engagement and economic development initiatives. In this role, she also served as a municipal circuit rider, staffing town planning and economic development offices. Prior to her career in regional planning, Dominique worked in the private sector and completed government internships at the local, federal, and quasi-governmental levels. Her mission is to build pathways out of poverty using economic growth as a vehicle for social and economic opportunity. Through the AIF Clinton Fellowship, Dominique will be working on corporate social responsibility projects. She is excited to develop a broad knowledge of India’s development ecosystem, gain new tools and perspectives in community development, and contribute to initiatives serving under-resourced areas and populations.

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4 thoughts on “India: From Enchantment to Appreciation

  1. Dominique, this is one of the most beautiful narrations I have ever read. Thank you for sharing the stories close to your heart. The beginning of your blog hooked me and the ending gave me goosebumps. I absolutely love the way you have expressed your thoughts.

  2. I appreciate the way look at life and the positive vibes you get in whenever you meet people in our campus.

    It is an interesting read. Waiting forward for your report on how micro-finance is availed by Tribal SHGs and the impact thereof.

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