“More than ever, having someone to talk to can make a world of a difference,” says Tinder CEO Elie Seidman in light of the worldwide lockdown. The lockdown has limited most of us to our homes for more than a month. This is accepted as one of the important and effective steps to control the spread of the Coronavirus. This has given many the opportunity to spend more time with partners or families in person or online. The comfort and safety that your house and your parents provide is second to none, and it is a type of comfort that only the privileged are enjoying. This could be a strong reason due to which millions of migrant workers decided to move back home.
But, is it really safe to stay at home? Not for every female. According to the National Family Health Survey (NHFS-4, 2018), every third woman in India suffers sexual or physical violence at home. Worse, 27 percent have experienced physical violence since the age of 15. Most of the times perpetrators of this violence are husbands who unleash either physical (27 percent) or emotional violence (13 percent). For unmarried women, the experience of physical violence stems from mothers or step-mothers (56 percent), fathers or step-fathers (33 percent), sisters or brothers (27 percent), and teachers (15 percent).
The situation in other countries is similar. With the extending lockdown, countries across the world have been recording the increasing number of reported domestic violence cases. Most women have still not reported their domestic violence cases. They are either reluctant or are unable to report domestic violence cases. The global cost of violence against women had previously been estimated at approximately USD 1.5 trillion and this amount is expected to increase worldwide.
Confinement is fostering the tension and strain created by security, health, and money worries and it is increasing isolation for women with violent partners, separating them from the people and resources that can best help them.
At a time when women are already shouldering higher proportions of the domestic burden during the lockdown, escalating tensions due to depleting resources are further accentuating domestic violence behind closed doors. According to a U.S. study, “Unemployment and economic hardship at the household level were positively related to abusive behavior. Further, rapid increases in the unemployment rate increased men’s controlling behavior toward romantic partners even after we adjust for unemployment and economic distress at the household level.”  This holds true worldwide.
The situation becomes worse when the laws and the required mechanisms are not satisfactory. In many countries, the law is not on women’s side; 1 in 4 countries have no laws specifically protecting women from domestic violence. In India, the laws and the judiciary is often seen to be on the women’s side. However, the state governments couldn’t succeed in fulfilling their duties under domestic violence laws. With massive problems regarding appointment and working of the protection officers, absence of or inadequate shelter homes, inadequate service providers and counselors, patriarchal and uncooperative behaviour of authorities under the laws towards the women are some of the prominent factors which have contributed to this failure.
The domestic violence laws in India covers females, including minors, who faced any form of abuse in a domestic relationship. Rakhi Sharma from Centre for Social Research, New Delhi, stated, “Shockingly, a new trend we’re witnessing, is of married women asking to be rescued from parental homes. Mothers, fathers, stepmothers, and siblings are also being accused of domestic violence.” Similarly in the U.S.: “The most common calls to the National Domestic Violence Hotline of the US involve abusers preventing healthcare workers or other essential employees from going to work. They’re either saying the person is purposely trying to infect them with COVID-19 by going to work, or they see it as an opportunity for that person to lose their job to gain financial control or using force to not let them take preventive measures.”
Non-government organizations and grassroots workers play a very important role in preventing violence and protecting women from further violence. With the lockdown and travel restrictions, it is difficult for local non-governmental organizations and individuals to assist these women. My fellowship host organization is unable to run the Nari Adalats (community women courts), and Nyaay Sakhis (adjudicators of Nari Adalats) are unable to visit their houses. However, Jagori has formulated strategies with the police to manage incidents of domestic violence and has its helpline. Jagori and several other gender-based organizations have submitted recommendations to the union government and various state governments on handling domestic violence incidents during the pandemic. It’s really important for survivors to know that in times like this, there’s still hope and they’re not alone. Isolation is one of the strongest tactics an abuser uses. The WhatsApp group which Jagori created for the survivors is also a good mechanism to provide some emotional and emergency support.
We may think that humans are different because of the different socio-cultural factors, economic factors, gender, place of residence, education, race, caste, religion and so on. The pandemic, in multifaceted ways, has shown that we all are the same on some level. The sudden simultaneous increase in the number of domestic violence cases worldwide leading to a shadow pandemic is compelling evidence. To be in a safe domestic environment seems to be a privilege for many women. To be or not to be home depends upon our access to that privilege. If you do not have that privilege, immediately seek assistance from the national helpline, state helpline, or local police.
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